The Oxford dictionary defines an introvert as “a shy, reticent person.”

I challenge the word shy.

Although I prefer to keep to myself, I know how to seek out company when I feel like company.

I read Zane novels. Zane is a best selling author of Black Erotica whose book “Addicted” was recently made into a movie. Keeping up with Zane on Facebook and Twitter, I anticipated seeing this movie. As a writer myself, I thought it was awesome for a novel to be brought to life on the big screen. Many people would comment on Zane’s Facebook posts, saying that they were going to see the movie with their girlfriends. I thought that would be a good idea.

I conference called my girls, giving them the “deets” for the film’s opening day and telling them it was a great girls’ night out opportunity. We could include dinner and wine.

One chick sounded like an owl on repeat “Who is Zane?” “Who are the actors?” Who who who. Perch on a branch with all those who’s.

Another chick whined that she was stuck at work until late. Be glad you have a job in a recession.

And another chick complained about the choice of movie theaters. “Why do we have to go there? Parking is so bad.”

I erased the penciled in idea of a girls’ night and made it, what I’m calling, ” This Girl’s Night.”

I went to the opening night of the movie and sat in the middle of the theater, took the movie snacks out of my tote bag (thanks to Target and their movie box size Raisinettes) and enjoyed the movie in blissful serenity.

No one to keep asking questions because she did not know the actors or plot, asking me like I am a walking, talking wiki page. I had a great time and even got that wine I mentioned.
As I admired my snacks and perfect seat, I looked around the theater. There was a woman with her drink and snacks laid out chilling in the cuts. We looked at each other and shared a smile. She knows what’s up.

Going to the movies solo is a nice way to enjoy a movie, especially one that is highly anticipated. I can bring snacks, sit where I want, recline in the seat and thoroughly relax. For those times when I really want company, I know I can call my peeps and hang out. It just isn’t mandatory.