Women always think that men can only be selfish in bed, but the proverbial door can, and does, swing both ways.

We’ve all had at least one partner that only cared about “getting theirs.” They reach their climax, find their “happy place,” and are content to leave it at that and go to bed. The majority of the time it’s the men that get blamed for this selfish behavior, but women are just as guilty of it.

Granted it can be harder for women to achieve orgasm. No one in their right mind would try to argue that fact. But, for those women that are easily pleasured, please keep in mind that selfishness is not welcome in the bedroom when it comes to sex.

Just because you “got yours,” doesn’t mean that the fun has to stop. It doesn’t matter if you’ve orgasmed 15-20 times, lay back and enjoy yourself while your partner keeps going. If, once they’ve reached their orgasmic goal and cannot continue, then feel free to fall asleep or do whatever you want to do. But please respect the process and keep your arms and legs inside until the ride is over.

There is nothing worse then a partner telling you to “hurry up” because they finished a long time ago. If it hurts, by all means tell the person, because sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties and if it’s one sided that’s no fun at all. But if you’re just feeling selfish and don’t care if your partner finishes or not, do us all a favor and remove yourself from the dating game until you come to your senses. There’s no room in a relationship, be it emotional or purely physical, for selfish partners.

So, ladies, before you start commenting on how all men are selfish and only care about themselves, keep in mind that there are always two sides to an argument. How many times have you rushed your partner into a frenzied orgasmic rush just because you already satisfied your orgasmic hunger? It’s a two way street ladies, and selflessness is always appreciated over selfishness.